TRYING OUT THE KINKY STUFF

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The word “kinky” is enough to set an oomph factor among men. Men do excited with bad and dark stuff. They are open to try various things. So let’s divulge into the details of the new world of BDSM.

PLANNING THE ACT

The client should have a clear mindset of what all things he want to try out and how is he going to do it. Use of toys require certain knowledge. As for the escort she should be informed beforehand of the client’s requirement and she should be totally okay with it. She might ask for a higher pay but that’s okay. Pleasure need not be matched with money. The client should mention his needs specifically to the booker and he in turn should do the same with the escort. And if required the client and escort could have a detailed communication about it too. Nobody likes getting ditched at the last moment so everything should be planned out with proper intimation.

BUYING THE TOYS

This should solely be the responsibility of the client. After having the discussion he should buy the stuff and he should have a clear idea about the sizes too. Toys can be bought by various online resources, so there credibility should also be taken care of. Also, proper hygiene should be maintained in order to avoid any infection. If the escort is personally interested in something then she can bring her toy along with her and ask the client to use it on her.

DOMINATRIX

This practice may not be considered healthy but many men prefer this. They like to surrender themselves and ask women or there mistress to do things to them. This is healthy as long as both parties agree on all terms and conditions. If the women gets carried away the client can ask her to stop or if he is enjoying he can ask her to get away with it. Remember, the client is total control of the situation here. Vis a versa if the client wants the escort to surrender and perform certain acts on her the escort should comply but she has all the right to say no if it is out of the context of what has already been discussed.

Summing up, Sex is an art. India is the land of Kama sutra so if we want to try out a few different things we should certainly go ahead and do it. But having healthy and satisfying sex is also important. Hurting someone for the satisfaction will not be a good call in the long run. Being sadistic, or masochistic while intercourse totally depends on the people doing it. Last but not the least, fantasies come with a reality check. So don’t try to match your fantasy instead live in the moment and do things that you want to do at that moment. BDSM looks hot in movies reality may differ. Don’t be harsh on yourself. Enjoy your little act and stay happy.

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